harvest actions are habits and, in the words of Zig Ziglar: "beware of habits you acquire it, once you buy they will buy from you." habits shape our approach and to respond to each situation and as such are central to the experience of life far simpler for us. Thanks to a habit we do not have to be learning again and again the same as we can automatically dominate and occupy our attention on other things.
However, when habits lead to destructive behavior or obsolete will generate serious problems in our lives and our relationships, and change a habit is very difficult ... but possible. The become aware of a bad habit and is a great first step so that we have to focus our attention on change. The next step is to modify nuetra attitude towards the habit, ie, instead of justifying it or think that because we can not change, we focus our thoughts on the inconvenience to think about their consequences, carefully and seriously consider are the second step in changing a habit.
The third step is to specify an action or actions that oppose the bad habit, not just-or function-by the act of proposing to stop doing the action of habit that we banish from our lives. We must rather focus on carrying out acts contrary to be forming a new habit to "scroll" to the former. The fourth step is to think deeply on the positive consequences that will arise in our life for leaving a bad habit and incorporate the good. The fifth step, repeat these actions over and over and over again with great intensity, with great conviction, without self-pity or exaggerate what it costs. The last step is to "trust" the assistance of Divine Providence, on the back of a Higher Power that is more than willing to help us in our process of change.
Yes, changing a habit is not easy, most will be one of the most productive jobs in our lives so why are we waiting?
